Archive for May, 2011

Nose-diving Dog

“Not my rosemary!”

It was too late.  And it wasn’t just the rosemary, it was the just-about-to-bloom-perfectly purple African daisies, too.
Flat.    Broken.    Kaput.  
My almost green thumbs ached, as did my heart, as I observed the aftermath and began to remove the snapped stems and branches.

Some dog, about yae-high, decided my front door garden needed him to roll in it.   I had never seen this dog before.  He didn’t belong to any neighbors that I know of.  Like a phantom – phantom of the garden – he nose-dived right into the flower bed and then was gone just as quickly.  I dreaded telling my husband, since the daisies were his addition to the bed this year.  These daisies originally looked as though they’d been peeled straight from coloring book pages, their petals beautifully symmetrical in diameter, surrounding a perfect, circular button center.  I was delighted that my husband took interest in the flowers this year, and the fact that he chose the daisy was fitting – a simple, yet strong variety.  🙂  And then there is my favorite, the rosemary.  Just earlier this same day, a friend had commented on the sheer size of her and how healthy she looked.  She has been in our garden for about 5 years now and has enjoyed two full seasons of blooming (something I had never had a rosemary do before).  Planted by the front door, as ancient folk lore has it, to bring health and prosperity to all who pass her by.  

Stupid dog.  “Where were the owners?”, I thought.  “I would never let my dog run around the neighborhood loose”.  Even my kids got in on the pity party, as they had helped over the years and this season in nurturing the garden.  Our youngest said, “Man, we have about a hundred dollars worth of plants in our yard, just for some dog to come and mess them all up.”

Fast forward to the next morning.  The boys and I head out to our local nursery to find a replacement plant for the spot the daisy had it’s claim on.  As we were checking out, I explained to the nursery worker why we were purchasing the new plant.  Without missing a beat, or joining in on the pity party, she said words that, to this very minute, bring a smile to my face.

“Well, I bet the dog sure smelled nice afterwards!”

Hmm.  I bet he did!

Again, I found myself caught up in the details that I felt were important, and I almost missed the opportunity to delight in a positive.  Man, is the Holy Spirit working on me!  Did that dog come to my garden to cause me thumb (heart) ache?  No.  How silly would that be!  He was just doing what dogs do, and he happened to admire my garden.

The rosemary will replenish itself.  To be honest, it needed a little pruning, anyhow.  I took the broken branches and tied them up with jute and hanged them in my kitchen to dry.  I will be enjoying some fresh dried rosemary in pot roasts this fall.  And the daisy?  The nursery worker told me to leave what was unbroken, albeit flattened, as it may surprise me and perk up.  Sure enough, this morning, two purple flowers opened.   It’s going to make it after all!

“Lord, please help to slow me and show me another side of situations I find myself in.  There are so many times I stress over things that are not even worthy of my energy.  Please help my eyes and my heart see the positives, so that I may enjoy the full blessing of your love through all situations and opportunities.   Amen.”

That little black dog now serves as a reminder to shake off the small stuff.  That is indeed a blessing.


 

A Happy House

We have the happiest house on the block.
It’s true!  Confirmed by our 9 year old.  His basis for this proclamation?  The multitudes of flowers that light up our yard.  And he is proud to announce to anyone this most important fact.

Imagine how my cheeks flushed as a neighbor down the street told me of how my son demanded to her children that “they do not have a happy house, because they don’t have any flowers in the front yard.”

This got me thinking:  Wouldn’t it be great if we could tell from the outside what people are like on the inside?

The truth is, flowers on the outside does not necessarily indicate that there is peace and happiness on the inside of a house.  You know where I’m going with this.  Chances are you know many people who are like this.  They put on a happy face and  show – whatever it is they believe is an ideal representation of happy – but on the inside, they are really unhappy.  Sometimes, they are really crying out for happiness in their false displays.

A life without Christ, no matter how beautiful the flowers, will fade and die in due season.  They are annuals.  Their beauty is but short-lived.  But a life filled with Christ will yield far more beauty than just a season of flowers.  A life in Christ is perennial.   It’s forever!  The dictionary tells us that perennial means lasting for a long or infinite time.  It is this life that makes a happy house.

I need to be clear in my explanation of this one to my 9-year-old, so he doesn’t start calling out people who planted Petunias this spring!

 

God’s Word First

When I arrived at work today, I opened my car door and my Bible fell out onto the pavement.  I thought, “How nice!  God’s word is ahead of me even before I put my feet on the ground.”  What a great reminder of how God’s word – his message – is like that.  I was reminded of the verse that says “If God is for us, then who can be against us”, and I stepped out of the car and into my day.  God’s word is the only weapon we need to shield us, the only tool we need to help us, and the only language we need to reach others.  I’m so thankful my Bible hit the ground this morning.  🙂

Favorite Book in the Bible?

My middle son, who is the ripe old age of thirteen right now, shared with me yesterday his favorite book in the Bible – Leviticus.  He specifically pointed out to me the scripture that talks about “the aged” (19:32).  He smiled at me and said, “Yeah, that’s about respect.  I like that a lot.”

Leviticus, huh?  Wow.  For him to say this is his favorite book may seem odd to people who don’t know him.  I mean, out of ALL the books, this one?  Any non-beleiver could have a field day in this book, given the generation in which it was written, extracting a few words, here and there without paying concern to the context in which it was written.  And it isn’t difficult for believers to get a little overwhelmed or confused by the passages within this book.  Knowing my son, though, I understand perfectly why this is his favorite book – it’s full of tangible rules, sort of.  You know:  “Do This”.  “Don’t Do This.”   Stuff like that.  My son is quite literal in his communication, and he reads, feels, and interprets in this way most all the time.  Believe me, this has lead to some interesting parent-teacher conferences before!

So now, knowing how intrigued my son is by the words in Leviticus, I’m sure some interesting discussions are coming up around the bend.  My in depth study begins, so that I can hopefully remain one step ahead when the questions come.  What a wonderful opportunity this is!

Back to that particular scripture, though – 19:32.  It is interesting that he singled this one out.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m GLAD it was this one, instead of the number of others he could have pointed out that may have caught me off guard, like any that include unlawful or immoral relations, for instance.  He’s a teenager, so I’ll not avoid these subjects, but I’m thankful he didn’t start with those.  Anyway,  doing the “self-taught analyzation” that I do so well (be sure to back up and read that again with the sarcastic tone I intended to imply), I began looking into our family life to see if there are any specific things that would make this particular verse so special to him.  Do we have elderly people in our lives?  Yes.  My mom, who has been undergoing chemotherapy for more than a year, has spent extended weeks of time with us during the course of treatment.  My dad doesn’t live to far away, and we really don’t see him nearly as often as we should.  There’s Ms. Dorothy who lives on the corner.  She’s a delight to speak to when we pass by.  I often have one of the boys run down to her house with a bag of cucumbers or a dish from our dinner.  There’s Ms. Mattie at church, among a number of other older people, who love to see our handsome young boys at church events and on Sunday mornings.  Pretty much all of the teachers have been older.  Oh, and there was Ms. Pat from the grocery store…

Wait a minute!  For a thirteen year old., most everyone outside of school friends meet the criteria of “aged”!

How wonderful to realize that my son is experiencing the joy of obedience.  In Leviticus, he received confirmation to what he already knew made his heart happy…..because it is pleasing to our Savior.  It’s that very thing that makes this his favorite book.  Joy in obedience.  It’s just beautiful.

Did I Miss Something?

This week, my oldest son (OS) is peddling himself happy in another country.  He’s spending 5 days cycling and camping – “A good way to see the countryside”, he says.  I don’t disagree.  At the end of his first day of travel, he called to fill me in on some details.  He said he started out a little later than he had hoped, but that he began his trek with prayer that went something like this:  “Lord, you know where I’d like to go today, but you also know that I am directionally challenged.  Please help guide me safely to my destination by nightfall.  Amen.”  Thirty minutes later, he came upon three cyclists who were taking a water break on the side of the bike path.  Noticing their maps, OS asked, “Where are you heading today?”  To his surprise and delight, they were going to the same destination!

As OS began to tell me about the rest of his day’s journey, I couldn’t move forward in the story with him.  Instead, I began to question:

ME:  Wait a minute!  So you just tagged along with these three strangers for the rest of the day?

OS:  Well, yeah.

ME:  !!! Did you get to know them?  I mean, talk to them?  Who were they?  (I was trying to hold down the scorn in my voice for his “talking to strangers in a strange land.  I know he’s a missionary – that’s a whole other blog).

OS:  We didn’t really have time to talk because we were riding…

ME:  (interrupting him) What!?  So you don’t even know who they are?

OS:  Mom, listen, it was okay.  They’re government employees.

ME:  Government employees?

OS:  Yeah.  One actually holds a pretty prominent position.  He’s the assistant to the president, or something like that.

ME:  !!! You mean [Mr. Jon Doe]?

OS:  YES!  That’s him!

ME:  Are you kidding me!?  You were bike riding with [Mr. Jon Doe], the Assistant to the President?!

OS:  Yeah, so anyway, we rode about 50 more miles….

ME:  (interrupting again) Hello?  Do you know how cool that is that you were with HIM?  Do you know how amazing that is?

OS:  Mom, YEAH, but let me tell you about the rest of the day.

ME:  Okay (in a voice that said, “well, okay, but it will have to be fancy to top that news”).

As OS began to tell me the details of the rest of his day, I still couldn’t get my head to hear much beyond what he had already told me.  Instead, I was thinking about the incredible circumstance that put him in the presence of such people.  So, I interrupted him, yet again:

ME:  Wait a minute – did you get his email address, or any way of keeping in touch with him?

OS:  No, mom, but it’s okay.  He doesn’t know my name, either.

OS eventually got to finish telling me about his first day’s travel.  He described the beautiful countryside, the gentleness of the townspeople he encountered, and the cheap dinner he had before setting up camp. Through it all, nothing seemed to minimize the fact of whom he had met and followed earlier in the day, in my eyes.  It wasn’t until the next morning, when reflecting on the conversation, that I realized something huge.  TREMENDOUS!  Really, really big.  I had missed the most true, wonderful gift of OS’s first day’s journey:  the blessing of his answered prayer.  The guidance from God.

PRAISE GOD for answered prayers!  What had OS started his day with?  Prayer.  Specific prayer.  And an answer, albeit decorated with a prominent name on what I’m sure was an incredibly loaded, aerodynamic road bike, was provided!  Our Savior had shown up in full-force to answer the prayers of my son.  “Ta-daaaaa!”  And I missed how incredible that was because I got caught up in the details.

How often do I overlook or give little emphasis to the Lord, when he blesses me in ways that I could easily recognize, if I would look upward from, instead of into, the details?

It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily rush, the stress of daily life – paying bills, making money to pay bills, ushering our children to school, grocery shopping, and on and on and on – it’s easy to become distracted or pre-occupied and miss all the blessings that are provided along our pathways.

Did I miss something?

Almost.  Thanks to our Heavenly Father and his guidance in my life, I didn’t, this time.  But I sure came close.  🙂